If it walks like a duck…

How can I say this tactfully, if something doesn’t feel right, look right, or sound right–IT’S PROBABLY NOT RIGHT!  My husband and I were unsettled from the gate with our first RE, but we ignored our gut feelings since this doctor came highly recommended with an impressive resume.  We figured that he knew best, not us.  If one lesson in particular stands out to me thus far, it is to trust my intuition no matter what and rely on my God-given instincts.  However, I will say that feelings are not facts so always keep perspective but never ignore a feeling that occurs over and over and over again.  Choosing a fertility doctor is not like choosing a dentist, it should be treated as one of the most important decisions you can make-with the same care as choosing a life partner.